SELECT slt1.nr slot_nr
,kon1.id kon_id
,kon1.besucher_id
FROM tm_slots slt1
LEFT JOIN tm_kontakte kon1
ON kon1.slot_nr=slt1.nr AND
WHERE slt1.owner_id=5 AND kon1.besucher_id IN (3713,3714)
GROUP BY slt1.nr
HTH